Every year I hope that the festive season turns into an atmosphere of serenity and peace, not only on Christmas Day and New Year's Day appearance for each year and instead passed these two days canons of false and hypocritical quiet resurgence of the usual discussions here. Two days ago I broke out with my brothers and my parents on economic issues and I have been told of all the colors like that my brother has the right not to pay his monthly fee despite gains logically most of my small pension disability (I explained who manages to keep about 250 € a month) and that I must give it all in the house to compensate for the lack of it. Since working as an employee if it is not to inform me I tried to open my own business but, and you felt even here but did not find one, I can not do it because they say I can not bear the weight of making a self-employment saw my myeloma who keeps me company and have already seen that my sponsors for my brothers and absolutely can not do it to me for not inguaiare them.
I also can not aspire to have a life outside of my house is not working because I have an obligation to help my parents. Apart from the fact that I have always cared, that will try to create me my future certainly does not mean that my parents and then abandon their assistance in having four brothers is a task for everyone, not just mine. You know they are married, separated, and then one must deal with their problems, that I'm single, I do not have to keep my family have no right to become independent and self-sufficient ... w the Middle Ages!!
What hurt me most was being told that in order to organize my life away I would be willing to "beat" who knows where my own parents when I've always said that I would never ever see them in a nursing home, and that my mother has agreed with them at the beginning saying that I should also help me, as if you did not already seen that when we go out too often pay the cost and I should give up my only two times a week for creative courses which among other things help me to relieve tension as travel and trips one can not speak ...
certainly seen how things are going if I need to graft bone from my brother would think twice about accepting it because the risk of feeling reproach and always in debt he did not accept it. My brothers have told me make clear that I am worth less than zero and that one day when there are more points of contact I will try and help me, okay in the end I can not force people to have contact with me if you do not want them, but beware that this is not me to close the so-called bridges because if I do it will be forever, not just until it suits them ...
IH IH!! How I envy the only brothers